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420man

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10/24/2014
Topic:
How can I sponsor my wife? (long read)

420man
420man
My wife and I have a really chaotic history.

I read the red flags that visa officers look at to evaluate applicants and it's quite unfair and unlucky for us since we raise almost all red flags but our relationship is anything but fake.

Everyone was against us but we fought for our love. We totally defied everyone and crossed boundaries to be with each other. Some of our families supported us sooner than the others.

Now I don't even know if we can possibly build a life in Canada together.

What kind of proof works?

Red flags :
*I'm 20,she's 27

*we met when I was 18 and she was 25

*she was newly married to a US Air Force guy

*On the wedding my side of the family weren't present because I wasn't in speaking terms with all of them

*my mom reported false allegations against her to keep her away from me and went to jail (my mom also did thus with my ex and my brother's gf and my sister's be but they're Canadian). Her charges were dropped though

*her sister didn't approve of her unbiblical ways so she didn't renew her work permit (caregiver)

*her tourist visa application was refused. She used the reason she needed more time to finish her divorce

*she overstayed in Canada. We couldn't proceed with the application mainly cause we been waiting for her police clearance to come and it arrived when she went back to the Philippines.

We lived together and spent a lot of moments together and had a lot of first time adventures with her.

What kind of proof do we need to provide to cancel out all these red flags?

I'm missing my wife and I need to save some more just to see her. Does anyone know what to do to help strengthen our application?
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